Ruth Watt, Aspire Coordinator, describes the important role our volunteers have in the smooth running of our youth clubs.  

When we think about volunteers, we may think of energetic, outgoing individuals who speak passionately, and seem to be everywhere at once.  

While these high-energy volunteers are undeniably valuable, there’s another kind of volunteer who often goes unnoticed - the quieter one. 

The one who works steadily behind the scenes, avoids the spotlight, but quietly carries out their responsibilities.

Isabella was one of these volunteers and was with us for two years, being consistently reliable through this time.  It was a privilege to see her confidence grow as she has gently got to know the young people she worked with.  

One of the most valuable skills in any setting - especially in community work - is the ability to listen.  

Quieter volunteers often excel at this.  They’re not busy planning what to say next or trying to lead every conversation, instead, they’re listening, observing, and understanding the real needs of the people they’re helping.  

Many of our young people find mainstream school difficult: the overwhelming environment, bright lights, loud noises and crowded spaces can be difficult to manage as well as navigating social expectations and communication. 

In our settings, they need a sensory friendly environment and a patient, accepting approach that accommodates their communication style. Isabella helps to provide this, giving our young people opportunities to practice skills in a supportive and low-pressure way.

This is what Isabella has said about her time volunteering with us:

“Volunteering at Aspire continues to shape me in ways I never anticipated.

Working with the Aspire team, and the children drew out my strengths, challenged my assumptions, and deepened my commitment to truly inclusive practice.

Each week, I joined the children in games and activities, making their hot chocolate and toasties. In these small moments, I witnessed how connection is built—not through words or performances, but through patience and shared space.

The children were my greatest teachers, and under the Aspire leaders’ guidance, I learned to trust my instincts, hold emotional space more steadily, and lead with care.

This experience not only developed my skills — it reshaped how I understand belonging, relationships, and the kind of practitioner and person I'm becoming.”

Romsey Mill is thankful for the vital contribution played by everyone who gives their time and energy and skills to volunteer with us.

In that, Romsey Mill also recognises the value of quieter volunteers — and understand why they may actually be the backbone of many successful teams.

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